Thursday, September 14, 2006

A Time To Say Goodbye

Hi Guys,
I won't be here for a while after today, I need a break, there's so much going on around me especially in my office, so I need to get away from all this, call me a coward if you want but I need to run, I just hope and pray that by the time I get back the "storm" will be over.

Anyway I need this leave, I'm really stressed out and I think I need to rest, so I'm getting away from civilization to my rural village where I'll breathe fresh unpolluted air for at least two weeks, its been ages since i went there, I kind of feel bad that i'm going there now on a sad note; my cousin's wife just died, its sooo sad, I remember when they were dating as if it was yesterday, I did not really like her, she was that kind of girl who hardly smiles (aw, you're not supposed to speak bad of the dead)but my cousin was like my hero and I used to wonder what he saw in her, he was the exact opposite, if you know what i mean, but he loved her, it was easy to see that.

They finally got married a few years back (i wasnt at the wedding) so it was a shock when my mum told me she has passed away during a surgical procedure, they don't even have a baby yet, I feel so bad not really for her( i'm sorry about that) but my cousin, I know he'll be hit badly(why do bad things keep happening to good people)I'm really in a state of shock, i've not even been able to call him, I just want to see him face to face to know how he's taking it.

Please Pray for him.

So I guess its time to say my goodbyes to her and my last repect too.
I hope she's happy wherever she is right now. Death is a mystery!!!!

14 comments:

Belle said...

i'm so sorry to hear about your cousins family and all the other stuff going on around you. I hope the break, even under these sad circumstances, helps you refresh. we'll miss your positive posts...but you'll be back soon :)

samuru999 said...

Sad news about your cousin's wife!
I will say a prayer for him as well
as her!
Death is a mystery!
How old was she!

I will miss you while you are away!
Come back soon as you can.
Get all the rest you need!
Take care sweetie!
God bless!
luv and hugs!
-Margie

LondonBuki said...

May her soul rest in peace and may the Almighty God give her family comfort...

Take good care of yourself... and you'll be missed and ofcourse your positive and motivating posts!

Keshi said...

first of all Im really very sorry to hear abt ur cousin's wife's untimely death! HUGGGGGGGZ Chris! Death is indeed a mystery...we dunno whats awaiting us after life...it could be better or it could be just nothing at all...a vacuum. But personally I believe there's something else after life. There's gotta be some meaning to all of this mess. I hope ur cousin's wife is in a better place now and I hope she's healthy and happy there. God bless her soul!

U taking a break is great but cos it's on a sad note, it's a bit of a bummer. But I do hope u get some rest from work and the net, and that u can be there for ur cousin who must feel alot of pain right now. So go there safe and have some quiet time that u both need. I will miss u alot but hopefully u'll come back soon and all refreshed. HUGGGGGGGZ au revoir my Chris sweety! I will be thinking of u...

Keshi.

Heidi said...

So sorry about tyour cousins wife..Hugs to you and take all the time u need.

Orikinla Osinachi. said...

Give my condolences to your bereaved cousin and family.

It was just a pity the young woman died and you never had the chance to know her better.

God bless.

Azuka said...

My condolences Christabelle. God will surely grant your cousin the fortitude to bear the loss.

Keshi said...

thinking of u Chris...

TC
Keshi.

PeanutMM said...

Know that you are in my thoughts and prayers during this time. Your cousin is as well. I know this is the first time I have commented, but I will miss reading your posts. (((HUGS))) and take the time away that you need!

samuru999 said...

Missing you n thinking of you sweetie!

Ebun said...

I'm sorry t hear about your cousins wife. Accept my sympathy darling. Have a safe trip and Rest easy. I'd miss you smiles.

starry nights said...

Sorry to hear about your cousins wife and sad that you are leaving but sometimes it is good to take a break. take care of yourself and come back. Your posts are an inspiration to all.

Lee said...

Im so sorry about your cousin's wife.
Take heart and May God give you and your family the strength to bear the loss.

Take care..

samuru999 said...

Hope you will be back soon!
Miss you!
Hugggggz!

Margie